My 10 yo son is a reluctant reader. Very bright, but also a typcial boy who is struggling with growing into all things "cool."
Yesterday, we were relaxing, resting, after a long day of skiing. I was trying to entice him into Kathi Appelt's
The Underneath, and read the first few lines to him.
He rolled his eyes and told me he liked very few books, but said he did like
Diary of a Wimpy Kid, and said I should read the series, and that it wouldn't take me long to do so.
So, I told him I would, and then a few minutes later, started reading aloud from
The Underneath (call me persistent, and maybe also a cheater, because I had skipped ahead a few chapters, and had deliberately picked out a few lines where things started getting scary....well, not Stephen King scary....but there was definitely a hint of horror to come, perhaps some fantasy, and mystery).
His ears perked. He scooted next to me to read the text. Then, he made me go back and start at the beginning.
After a few chapters, I put the book down to get dinner ready. He picked it up, and started reading on his own. Later, I had to pry the book away to get him to eat. Then after watching a family movie, (Pirates of the Carribean 2), he had his nose back in the book again even though it was after 10pm....
This book is not written in Diary of a Wimpy kid style. It is literary. It's almost poetic. But it has an amazing voice. One that definitely connected with my son, which is so cool.
This is the second "long" novel I've gotten my son interested in reading, after he had initially said, "no," (the other was
The City of Ember). Yes, he was judging the books by their covers and length, and thought there was no way he'd want to read them. But all it took was five minutes of reading aloud, five minutes of mother-son time, and he was hooked. Now I'm in the situation of having to read to catch up to him, so we can continue to read aloud together.
The Underneath is a great read-aloud--mainly because it is so beautifully and flawlessly written. I highly recommend it, particulary if you can share it with a reluctant reader--open their world of books to something they normally wouldn't choose for themselves, or even, something you normally wouldn't choose for them. The chapters are short and switch from character to character, which keeps it interesting and relatively fast-paced.
This whole experience has made me question what "makes" a reluctant reader. Do kids fall into this category themselves? Do we hold that label over them? Do they hang on to it?
Or, are they willing to eventually let go? And if so, how will they do it?
(Here's
an article by author John Green that tackles adult expectations vs teen preferences, where he too, was surprised by what teens liked.)
I'm not even sure my son knows what reluctant reader means, or if he even knows the term exists. I haven't ever said, "You're a reluctant reader." But I have lived with the frustrations of dealing with a child who doesn't really want to read much, besides nonfiction and his favorite sports magazine. Thank heavens he's beginning to open his eyes to other things, namely longer works, which require some thought, attention, and commitment.
And thank heavens, I took a chance with
The Underneath. The result was completely unexpected, but so much appreciated.
